Dane informed me that I could do whatever I wanted but he wanted me to handle it on my own. This was probably a good idea on his part because we argue when we work together. So, with Annie's permission and some help from Big Dane, we built her a loft bed. Her room has all kinds of new space and I LOVE IT. There's a good possibility I like it more than Annie... but I'm pretty sure she's okay with it too.
Obviously Deucey was incredibly helpful.